{"id":69,"date":"2014-03-17T09:57:44","date_gmt":"2014-03-17T14:57:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/palmettorabbi.com\/?p=69"},"modified":"2014-03-17T10:22:04","modified_gmt":"2014-03-17T15:22:04","slug":"planning-your-jewish-wedding-what-is-a-ketubah","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/palmettorabbi.com\/?p=69","title":{"rendered":"Planning Your Jewish Wedding: What is a Ketubah?"},"content":{"rendered":"

What is a ketubah?\u00a0 Why should we think about incorporating one into our wedding?\u00a0 <\/i>How do we pick one out?\u00a0<\/strong> <\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

Originally a ketubah, or Jewish wedding contract, was a legal document that was given by a groom to his bride. It laid out the basic commitments the husband made to his wife, and its original purpose was to provide legal protection to women during marriage and in case of divorce or widowhood.<\/p>\n

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A traditional illustrated ketubah<\/a>.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

As the roles of men and women changed, and marriage became a commitment between two equals, the role of the ketubah has evolved as well.\u00a0 Today in Reform (and other progressive) Jewish practices, the ketubah is a document that expresses the commitments the wedding couple makes to each other. These commitments might include: honoring and cherishing one another; listening to one another; or acting with love and respect towards one another.<\/p>\n

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“Above all, choose a ketubah with artwork you love and with words that speak to you, frame it beautifully, and display it proudly in the home you establish together.”<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

I encourage you to view choosing your ketubah as an opportunity to connect with each other about what matters most.\u00a0 Take some time some time to discuss what being married means you. What are the commitments you make for each other? What are you hoping as you establish your home together?\u00a0 How do you plan to care for and live with love towards one another? Use your answers to these questions to pick out a ketubah text that speaks to you and your relationship.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll likely notice that most of the time a ketubah will include artwork.\u00a0 This is because the ketubah is not meant to be tucked away in a drawer.\u00a0 It is meant to be hung in the home, as a visible reminder of the loving commitments you make on your wedding day.<\/p>\n

If you are asking a rabbi to officiate at your wedding or commitment ceremony, it is a good idea to ask him or her to take a look at the ketubah you’re considering.\u00a0 She can help make sure that the text of the ketubah is a good fit for you. And, because some of the information that a couple needs to provide is in Hebrew, she can also help guide you in filling it out.<\/p>\n

Above all, choose a ketubah with artwork you love and with words that speak to you, frame it beautifully, and display it proudly in the home you establish together.<\/p>\n

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